Essential Divorce Resources: Tools, Checklists & Expert Guidance

Start here to simplify the divorce process, protect your peace, and take your next step with guidance from start to finish. Feel empowered at every stage of divorce fully informed and supported:
  • Clear Intentions and grounded in what matters
  • Calm under pressure without losing yourself
  • Confident in your choices armed in facts, not guesswork


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Take our FREE self-assessment to schedule your call with a Divorce Specialist. We’ll guide you step-by-step in creating your divorce action plan.

Move Through Divorce Informed, Supported, and with Your Head Held High

You’re expected to make smart legal, financial, and emotional choices on your own, and while your life feels like it’s in chaos. If you have kids or shared property, the emotional weight can grow heavier and start showing up in your mental clarity, your physical body, and the stress level you feel day to day.

That’s why the right support matters. With clear tools and expert guidance, you can move through this process with more stability and less guesswork.

You have questions: What do I do first? Who should I hire? What if I make a costly mistake? 

Whether you’re just beginning, in court, or finalizing terms, having trusted divorce resources can save you time, stress, and money. 

Irooze has the answers. We guide you through each phase from understanding how to prepare for divorce, to managing co-parenting challenges, to rebuilding your future.

Irooze is here to help you feel clear with your intentions, calm in emotionally charged situations, confident with knowledge backed resources. Inside, you’ll find tools to help you:

Prepare effectively with checklists and legal basics
Protect your finances, emotional energy, and legal standing.
Plan for a future you actually want.

Take the Irooze Divorce Readiness Self-Assessment to get FREE personalized support for your individual needs and book a date to meet with the specialized experts for your next steps.

About Your Divorce

How the Irooze Method Delivers the Most Effective Online Divorce Support

Understand What To Expect Throughout Your Divorce Journey

Divorce can feel like being lost in a storm without a compass. The emotional overwhelm, legal complexities, and countless unknowns pile up. Plus, it’s hard to know where to start or who to trust.

We’ve been there and know how traditional divorce systems often cause more pain and conflict than healing. That’s why the Irooze Method offers a different path: a holistic, strategic approach supporting you emotionally, legally, and financially.

We help you:

  • Set healthy boundaries
  • Communicate clearly in high-conflict situations
  • Protect your finances
  • Maintain stability for your children

You’ll receive a customized divorce plan tailored to your unique needs. We provide compassionate coaching, easy to follow legal guidance, and practical time tested tools to help you manage emotions, handle family complexities, and overcome financial obstacles.

Unlike hiring a lawyer or therapist alone, Irooze combines expert insights from professionals across every aspect of divorce and provides support whenever you need it most. 

You’ll never face any part of the divorce process alone.

Ready for a divorce process that puts your wellbeing and family first? Irooze is here to help you build a FREE customized strategic action plan:

Begin with the Irooze Free Self-Assessment to Book Your Appointment

Ready to Take Action? Start With Trusted Divorce Preparation Tools

Our expert-vetted resources help you take the guesswork out of divorce. If you’re just beginning or navigating the thick of it, these essential articles and checklists will keep you informed and organized at every step.

Legal & State Laws

Divorce Laws by State & Province: What You Need to Know

Know Your Rights And Responsibilities Under State Divorce Laws

Understanding divorce laws is overwhelming, especially when considering that each U.S. state and Canadian province has its own divorce requirements, legal timelines, and court procedures. The Irooze comprehensive legal divorce resources guide you through every step, if you want to know the specific divorce laws, how to file for divorce, what documents are required, or the differences between contested and uncontested divorce

With easy-to-navigate state-specific and province-specific legal guides, you’ll get the clarity you need based on your location.

Need professional help? Our Divorce Directory carefully vets divorce attorneys, family mediators, collaborative attorneys and legal coaches so you don’t have to face the legal process alone.

Find Local Divorce Legal Experts Who Understand the Laws in Your State or Province

Living in Canada? Explore our comprehensive guides to divorce laws in your province.

We understand that you are likely facing 2 main challenges:

  1. Which legal process is best for us, based on our needs?
  2. How do I/we find the “right” professional? How do we know who is good, honest and reputable?

The Irooze solution for your exact situation

We offer you 2 options:

  1. The Irooze Match & Connect  service eliminates the guesswork so that you can avoid trial & errors and costly mistakes! 
  2. If you would like to DIY your divorce. We will send you resources to get you started!

Take the FREE self assessment to schedule your FREE call with one of our Divorce Specialists. Our objective is to create for you a strategic action plan and introduce you to professionals that can help you reduce your legal fees, significantly cut the emotional pain, protect your wealth and, help you leave an impressive divorce legacy to your children. 

Mediation vs Collaborative vs Legal Coach vs Litigation

Choosing the right divorce process is crucial to your financial stability, emotional well-being, and long-term legal outcomes. Whether you’re considering divorce mediation, collaborative divorce, working with a legal divorce coach, or pursuing divorce litigation, each path offers unique benefits and challenges. 

Mediation:

A private, out-of-court process where a neutral third-party mediator helps both sides reach an agreement, in an environment based on open communication. This could be the least expensive solution with the most opportunities to dictate the outcome that is in the best interest of your entire family. The mediator doesn’t make decisions but helps to communicate and discuss options, so that you can both get creative. Ideal for the divorce process and custody issues.

Collaborative Law:

Each person hires specially trained lawyers and agrees not to go to court. This is team-based and likely includes financial experts or therapists to resolve issues cooperatively and common in divorce and family law.

Legal Coaching:

You handle your own case with behind-the-scenes help from a lawyer. Ideal for those who are self-represented needing guidance on documents, court prep, or legal strategy. This lawyer is not “mandated” by you nor do they represent you in court.

Litigation:

This is the most expensive legal process that also guarantees no results and a complete loss of control over the outcome. When people think divorce is about “fighting” or “protecting” oneself, they often choose a litigious divorce (unless you are dealing with domestic violence ). The formal legal process where lawyers represent each side in court. A judge, maybe even a jury, makes the final decision. Best for high-conflict or complex cases where no agreement can be reached.

Finances & Division Of Assets

How to Divide Assets and Finances During Divorce

MANAGE YOUR FINANCES AND FAIRLY DIVIDE YOUR ASSETS

Dividing assets and finances during divorce is often one of the most stressful and complex parts of the process. From splitting marital property, retirement accounts, and joint investments to understanding child support, spousal support, alimony, and divorce-related tax implications, it’s essential to make informed, strategic decisions.

Our expert-curated financial divorce financial resources help you get a clear view of your financial situation, explore settlement options, and create a practical post-divorce budget. Whether you’re dealing with hidden assets, business valuations, or simply desire guidance on building a stable financial future after divorce, our tools, checklists, and articles offer trusted support every step of the way.

Find Trusted Divorce Financial Experts Trained to Guide You Through Complex Decisions, and Read Helpful Articles that Matter Most to You

Living in Canada? Find CDFA® experts, Divorce Financial Planners, Mediators, and CDS® specialists in your province.

Divorce Financial Planning: Clarify the Full Financial Picture

5 Ways a Divorce Financial Neutral Helps You

A Divorce Financial Neutrals works together with both parties to organize income, assets, debts, can get creative with settlement offers while considering the laws and the tax implications to create clear reports, including net worth statements.

A Financial Neutral is divorce-trained and acts as a “mediator” while only focusing on the financial side of your divorce process. This is ideal for parties who do not have challenges around custody. The objective is that both parties fully understand their financial standing.

1. Explain Settlement Option with Expert Guidance.

They break down how dividing property, accounts, or assets impacts each person’s short- and long-term financial stability.

2. Understand Tax Implications of Divorce Settlements

They explain key tax consequences, like spousal support taxation or capital gains, so you can make smarter decisions.

3. Create a Realistic Post-Divorce Budget

Get help creating realistic budgets and cash flow plans to stay financially stable after divorce.

4. View Long-Term Financial Projections After Divorce

They use tools to show how various settlement options may affect your future retirement, investments, and goals.

5. Ensure Financial Transparency in Divorce Negotiations & Reduce Conflict

By sharing the same info with both parties, they foster fairness, reduce tension, and keep the process on track.

Real Estate – Property

Property Dividing in Divorce: Homes, Investments & More

MAKE SMART DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR HOME AND PROPERTY

Dividing real estate during divorce involves more than just legal decisions—it often carries deep emotional and financial weight. Whether you’re deciding whether to sell the marital home, buy out your spouse’s share, or divide jointly owned properties like vacation homes or rental investments, it’s crucial to understand your options. Our expert real estate divorce resources break down how property division works, how to handle home equity during divorce, and what legal and tax factors to consider. Whether you’re navigating property division in a U.S. state or Canadian province, we provide clear, location-specific guidance and connect you with professionals experienced in real estate and divorce settlements to help you protect what matters most.

Find Trusted Property Division Experts to Help You Navigate Homes, Equity & Investments in Divorce, and Read Helpful Articles

Living in Canada? Work with trusted and vetted divorce trained realtors and mortgage lenders. reviewing assets, and negotiating fair settlements during divorce. 

Emotional Healing

Managing the Emotional Stages of Divorce

Navigate The Emotional Ups And Downs With Strength And Clarity

Divorce is an emotional journey, it’s more than just a legal process, and it can leave you feeling overwhelmed, angry, heartbroken, or paralyzed by fear. Whether you’re experiencing the grief of lost dreams, the shock of betrayal, or the emotional aftermath of being blindsided, you’re not alone. 

Our comprehensive emotional healing resources for divorce are here to help you navigate the emotional stages of divorce, manage divorce-related trauma, and rebuild your confidence. Through expert-led videos, therapeutic articles, and compassionate coaching, you’ll find the support you need to move forward with strength and self-awareness. 

No matter your role in the separation, healing after divorce is not only possible, it’s within reach.

Divorce Coach or Therapist: Which Professional Is Right for Your Emotional and Legal Journey?

Divorce Hurts Everyone: Understand the Emotional Stages in Divorce, Whether You Left or You Were Blind-Sided

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Therapy

Divorce Therapy: When & How to Get Emotional Support

Therapy during divorce can be a powerful tool for emotional healing, self-growth, and reclaiming your stability. Whether you’re facing anxiety, trauma, or relationship grief, our trusted resources help you understand how divorce therapy works, when to consider trauma-informed counseling, and whether a divorce coach vs therapist is the right fit for your needs. Featuring licensed therapists and specialized experts, our curated content offers guidance on processing divorce emotions, rebuilding boundaries, and developing a healthier mindset for your post-divorce life. Each expert video includes full transcripts to support accessibility, reflection, and deeper emotional learning.

Divorce Therapy: Understanding When It’s the Right Support for You

Parenting & Children

Parenting Through Divorce: Support for You and Your Children

Support Your Children And Build A Healthy Co-parenting Plan

Divorce has a profound impact on children, affecting their emotional well-being and family dynamics long-term. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting, managing a child custody battle, or helping your kids adjust to the changes, effective strategies can make all the difference. 

Our expert-backed parenting through divorce resources focus on putting your child’s best interests first while safeguarding your parental rights. Discover practical advice on creating co-parenting schedules, communicating with children at different ages, and handling shared custody with compassion and consistency. 

Learn from licensed therapists, educators, and parenting coaches who specialize in supporting families through divorce transitions.

Parenting Through Divorce: Trust, Growth & Confidence for You and Your Children

Career

Career Help for Divorced Women & Single Parents

REFOCUS YOUR CAREER AND CREATE A STABLE FUTURE

Starting over financially after divorce often means reentering the workforce or redefining your professional path. Whether you’re a stay-at-home parent returning to work or a seasoned professional navigating a career change after separation, our expert-backed divorce career resources provide the tools you need to move forward. 

From rebuilding career confidence to exploring new job opportunities and income streams, we offer step-by-step guidance, motivational success stories, and access to career coaches who specialize in divorce recovery

Regain your financial independence and build a future you’re excited about with support designed for this exact chapter of your life.

Turn Your Passion Into Purpose: Build a Career or Business After Divorce

Spiritual & Energetic Divorce

Spiritual Healing After Divorce: Releasing Emotional Baggage

Find Peace Through A Spiritual And Energetic Divorce Process

For so many people, divorce is a legal and an emotional event too, but it’s equally a spiritual separation that leaves deep, unseen wounds. Our spiritual and energetic divorce healing resources provide powerful tools to help you process this inner transformation.

 Learn how to release emotional attachments, heal energetic ties, and practice forgiveness after divorce as you reconnect with your true self. Through spiritual divorce coaching, somatic energy work, and expert-guided practices, you’ll find the support needed to restore emotional balance and move forward with peace and clarity. Because healing your energy is just as essential as healing your heart.