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For parents divorcing or separating

Find relief from a confusing, expensive divorce.Choose who should be on your side.

A lawyer handles the law. A strategy protects the rest: your money, your kids, your home and your next chapter. Every choice you make today counts. Avoid costly mistakes.
What to do. Where to start. Who to hire. Who can solve your challenges. Start here.
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Nothing missed. Everything connected.
8 pillars
Vetted professionals
100% anonymous & confidential
Free to start
Every strategy call with Ravit Rose, the Divorce Scientist & our Founder
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One strategy. Four results.

Significantly reduce your legal fees
Cut the emotional pain
Protect your wealth
Leave an impressive divorce legacy for your children
How Irooze works

Choose your level of support.

Divorce is not one-size-fits-all. Choose how much help you want.
Do it yourself

Search the divorce directory.

Eliminate the guesswork. The right professional isn’t easy to find. We did the hard work and sourced heart-centered, resolution-oriented professionals.
Research all your options
Search by name, category or region
Compare each professional’s approach and focus
Both parents can see the same information, which makes choosing a neutral professional much easier
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Where do I start?
Who do I hire?
I don’t know what to do.
Let’s build you a strategy.
Semi-guided experience

Build your strategy, step by step.

Ask what’s on your mind and access reliable resources based on facts and the law.
Create your own strategic outline for your state or province
Feeling stuck? Take a free quiz
Accurate resources: articles and videos from vetted professionals
Built by Ravit Rose, using her approach and methodology
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Match &
Connect
Fully guided with Ravit Rose, The Divorce Scientist

We build your strategy, then Match & Connect you.

Realistic, accurate solutions you may not know exist, matched to your needs.
A strategy call: what to do first, who to call, which professional to hire, and who is most suitable for you and your family
A strategic action plan that covers every area of your life
Significantly less stress, lost time and legal spend, with fewer wrong turns
Match & Connect is what happens after your call. Ravit Rose builds your strategic action plan, then introduces you to the most suitable professionals and solutions. You choose who to connect with directly.
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Your free call

What happens on your 20-minute call.

Take the free 6-minute self-assessment, then choose a time on Ravit Rose’s calendar. One conversation, one plan, one clear next step.
1
Review every pillar
We walk through every area of your life, so nothing is missed.
2
Create your strategic action plan
You leave with a plan built around your goals, your family and your situation.
3
Know your next move
You’ll know what to do, where to go from here and who to call.
4
Start choosing with logic
You begin making decisions from facts and logic, not panic.
WHAT IT COSTS
Starting is free.
The 20-minute strategy call is free
Match & Connect is free
You pay professionals directly, and each one offers a free consultation
We take no referral fees or share of your legal bills
You can retake the self-assessment as often as you like.
What “vetted” means
Finding the right professional is hard, and a wrong choice is costly. Here is what we look for.
Heart-centered
Professionals who put your family’s wellbeing first.
Resolution-oriented
Focused on solving the problem, not prolonging the fight.
Divorce-trained
Each has some form of divorce training, so they understand what you are facing.
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Avoid the “I wish I knew”

Most parents don't know what they need until something goes wrong.

Prevent regretful decisions. Choose an area to see the questions most people miss, and who can help.
Legal
Know your rights and your options.
Lawyer, mediator or both
Your state or province, explained
Separation vs. divorce
Choose Legal →
Financial
Protect your wealth and plan what’s next.
Settlement options, retirement plans and QDROs
A budget for one household
Nothing left on the table
Choose Financial →
Emotional
Heal without losing yourself.
Support for grief, anger and anxiety
Coaching for strategy and coping
You are not alone in this
Choose Emotional →
Parenting
Protect your kids and your peace.
How to tell the kids
Custody schedules that fit their age
Co-parenting, parallel parenting or coexisting
Choose Parenting →
Career
Support yourself and rebuild your income.
Going back to work
Planning your income
Work during the process
Choose Career →
Mindset
Name what you want and choose it.
Decide with facts and logic
Who am I now?
Starting over at any age
Choose Mindset →
Real estate
Decide what happens to the home.
Keep it, sell it or buy out
Mortgage and refinancing questions
Where you will live
Choose Real estate →
Spiritual & energetic
Find your calm and your peace.
Faith and forgiveness
Breathwork and grounding
Protect your energy
Choose Spiritual & energetic →
What we map out on your call

Your life, not your case file.

Your strategic action plan covers the whole of you and your children, so every decision comes from facts, logic and strategy, not panic. You choose a clear next step.
Life 2.0: the new life you envision for yourself after divorce.
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Your strategic action plan
Sample
Your possible solutions, mapped pillar by pillar.
1
Legal
Do I need a lawyer or a mediator? Which one fits my situation?
Option A
Option B
Option C
2
Financial
What can I afford, and how do I protect everything I’ve built?
Option A
Option B
Option C
3
Emotional
Overwhelmed, confused, lost? Who is the right professional for you right now? Therapy is not one-size-fits-all. What are your other options?
Option A
Option B
Option C
4
Parenting
Parenting plans, decisions and disagreements, reviewed together.
Option A
Option B
Option C
5
Career
Should I get a job? Can I keep mine? Do I go back to work? Plan your income and your future financial health.
Option A
Option B
Option C
6
Mindset
Rediscover who you are. What will my life look like once I sign? How do I want to rebuild?
Option A
Option B
Option C
7
Real estate
Can I stay in the house, or do I have to sell it?
Option A
Option B
Option C
8
Spiritual & energetic
Protect your inner peace. Let go of what no longer serves you.
Option A
Option B
Option C
The costliest assumptions

Why is divorce expensive?

There is a right way to divorce and a wrong way. Most parents learn the difference too late: they run on fumes, decide from emotion, and take advice from the “I hate my ex” club.
THE ASSUMPTION
THE REALITY
THE ASSUMPTION
My first call should be to a lawyer, who will have all the solutions.
THE REALITY
Legal bills add up fast. Start with a strategy: map your next steps with your goals in mind, and lower your legal spend before it starts.
THE ASSUMPTION
Divorce is only about kids, money and the law.
THE REALITY
Too many parents fall into this trap. Divorce reaches eight areas of your life, and today’s choices shape what comes after.
THE ASSUMPTION
Once I sign, I’m done with my ex.
THE REALITY
The papers are only the start. Arguments begin when you start your new life, and that’s where costs keep climbing.
THE ASSUMPTION
A great lawyer will cover everything.
THE REALITY
Your lawyer is one piece of the puzzle. What you choose next decides whether you spend a fortune or keep costs reasonable.
THE ASSUMPTION
I already hired a lawyer, so it’s too late to plan.
THE REALITY
It’s not too late. A strategy shows what’s missing around your lawyer, and who can fill the gaps, to minimize the tension and arguments.
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Why Ravit Rose

I learned divorce the hard way.

My own divorce was acrimonious. It began more than 16 years ago, and it took nearly as long to navigate. I never want another parent to go through that blind.
What I learned became curiosity, and curiosity became the study of divorce. I interviewed hundreds of families for my book and have spoken with thousands of parents one on one. I’m not a scientist by training. I study divorce the way a scientist would: patterns, evidence, what actually works. That’s how I became the Divorce Scientist.
Irooze is the result: a proven method and a community of vetted professionals, so you don’t have to learn it the hard way.
Ravit Rose, the Divorce Scientist & Founder of Irooze
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Solutions based on data and research
The research
Hundreds of families interviewed for the book Unwanted Nasty Divorces (2016).
The experience
More than a decade guiding parents, one on one, across the US and Canada.
The data
Proprietary assessment data from the parents we guide.
The results
Parents who saved $10,000 or more in legal fees. Individual results vary.
Rated 5.0 by parents

A whole community behind every parent.

100% anonymous and confidential.
A DAD’S STORY
He lost almost everything. Then he got a plan.
THE SITUATION
Two businesses. Two kids. Then the divorce hit, and the legal bills hit harder. He went from wealthy to struggling, and he lost access to his children.
WHAT CHANGED
We helped him see his options, find better solutions and put the right people in place, in the right order.
THE RESULT
He is rebuilding his new life, and he has access to his children again.
If you’re a dad in the middle of this, it’s not too late, and you don’t have to figure it out alone.
A MOM’S STORY
She had never paid a bill. Now she has a team.
THE SITUATION
A mom of three, scared and unsure where to start. She had never paid a bill, and divorce and money terms were new to her.
WHAT CHANGED
We built her divorce support team.
THE RESULT
She felt safe, secure and assured, and she spent significantly less in legal fees.
Client stories. Details changed to protect privacy. Individual results vary.
“Amazing service Ravit provides. Her passion, her experience and resources she gives to her clients is very much needed.”
Becky S., Mom
· Google review
“Ravit is my advisor and she is absolutely amazing. This service is heaven sent as I didn’t know where to begin.”
Lorrie A., Mom
· Google review
“I feel like I finally have some direction and a plan of action, which I wanted so badly! I highly recommend taking the free call!”
yellow sunshine
· Verified review
“She also connected me with relevant professionals (financial, mortgage, and parenting), which saves time and reduces guesswork.”
Pablo
· Verified review
“I also found the referral process to vetted professionals very helpful, as it made me feel more confident knowing there are trusted resources available.”
Ron
· Verified review
“Instantly I felt a relief that I was on the right path.”
Dee
· Verified review
“Rose listened carefully to my story and connected me with the right information. Information I did not know existed.”
Tonde A.
· Verified review
“Going through difficult family situations is never easy, but speaking with Ravit gave me clarity and reassurance during a stressful time.”
John V., Dad
· Verified review
“Ravit helped me understand the information I need and the main decisions I need to make in order to take the next steps with my divorce.”
Mike, Dad of two
· Verified review
Questions

What parents ask us.

How much does the strategy call cost?
It’s free. After you take the free self-assessment, you receive a complimentary 20-minute call. You can retake the assessment as many times as you like.
Match & Connect is free. When we introduce you to a professional, you pay that professional directly, and they invoice you. Each one offers a free consultation first, so you can ask your questions.
Yes. Preferences such as gender, specialty, communication style and experience can all be considered, and we work with professionals from diverse backgrounds.
No. Some parents prefer to work with a professional on their own, while others work together and save on costs. The decision is yours.
No. Irooze does not replace or offer legal services. We educate you on your options and Match & Connect you with a vetted professional in your state or province. The final choice is always yours.
Yes. Your family lawyer handles the legal side, and we can also match you with professionals trained to work with high-conflict situations, to reduce stress, legal fees and drama.
That’s great, and we’re happy to support you. Irooze is neither pro-marriage nor pro-divorce. We are pro helping you find the right solutions.
We help all parents, but we do not deal with domestic violence or abuse, and we don’t have resources for those situations. If you or your children are in danger, call 911 right away. In the US, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233. In Canada, you can find a shelter near you at sheltersafe.ca.

Choose relief. Choose who should be on your side.

Start with a free 20-minute call with Ravit Rose, the Divorce Scientist. She takes every call herself, so availability is limited each week.
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